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HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY TO ME
Today is Valentine’s Day! Happy Valentine’s day to you. For some reason, V-Day causes some single people stress and anxiety. It shines a light on the romantic relationships in our lives — or the lack of — and that can stir up an array of emotions. Whether you are coupled up or celebrating with friends, there is one relationship that everyone has, and many argue is the most important: the relationship with yourself. While Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love, and why not grant yourself the same kindness, generosity and display of admiration that you would to a lover or friend?
GAMER GIRLS
The video game and esports industries are seeing an unprecedented surge in revenue thanks to women gamers, the majority who are single. 33% of female gamers were aged 25-34 and 32% have the preference of strictly playing on their own.
THE GOOD NEWS IS, YOU ARE NOT ALONE
Do you feel like you’re emotionally defective because you don't have a burning desire to be married? Fear not, for you're not alone. The trend of never-been-married mid-aged Americans has been decades in the making. For the first decade of the 20th century, only around 16% of 40-year-olds had never married. Today, 25% of 40 year olds in the US have never been married.
MISERY LOVES COMPANY, HOW TO MANAGE THE BITCH AT WORK
Unfortunately, we have all experienced a hater in the workplace. Studies show single women often face friction with their married co-workers due to the perception of their free time outside of work.
Being single does’t mean everyone at work is jealous of your free time - there are plenty of reasons we may experience the wrath of a colleague’s misplaced hostility. I found people who behave like tyrants at work are often miserable somewhere else in their lives. I learned that there were better ways to avoid the proverbial airstrikes and landmines in environment of workplace warfare. I call it “warfare” because we are literally in a fight for our survival.
SINGLE WOMEN ARE DRIVING THE $737 billion DECOR INDUSTRY
The home decor industry in the US is experiencing significant growth, with single women emerging as the largest group of homeowners. This trend presents a massive opportunity for the decor industry to cater to the unique preferences and needs of this demographic. The market size in 2020 reached $737.20 billion, and a steady growth rate is forecasted, with an expected market value of $1 trillion by 2025.
I’M DIVORCING YOU …
40% of divorce filings occur in the weeks following Valentine's Day. February's surge in divorces is not solely attributable to Valentine's Day. Financial stressors, highlighted by the peak in January bankruptcy filings, often strain marriages. The cold weather during February can exacerbate existing relationship problems, forcing couples indoors and intensifying conflicts. Relationship experts suggest Valentine's Day itself acts as a catalyst for couples already contemplating divorce to make a decision.
THURRRRST …
The thirst is real! In 2023, around 77% of texters have sent , whilst 88% have received a risky text.
Sending risky/thirsty texts and nudes is a game that comes with both wins and losses, babes. You may get the immediate response you desire but will that gratification last? Ask yourself and know that the answer might be a big fat “NO!” Understanding the science behind the brain's reactions adds a layer of intrigue to the digital dance of thirst vs. romance. Always remember that once it’s out there, it’s out there forever!
HOW TO COPE WHEN NOTHING IS GOING YOUOR WAY
One of life’s dirty little secrets is that some times a rough time can last for a long time. When life starts to resemble a house of cards on the verge of collapse, it's time to take a step back and reassess the situation. Here's a guide to cope with the whirlwind when everything seems to be going wrong. Might I add, sometimes everything is actually going wrong and I am here to validate you! I see you!
flower girls
“I can buy myself flowers!” The US floral gifting market was valued at $12.25 billion in 2022. 63% of women buy flowers for themselves. 86% of these floral purchase are for non-calendar occasions. 79% of total floral purchases are made by women. It looks like there is an opportunity for growth in the flower industry and it starts with single ladies!
SINGLE LADIES AND SELF ADORNMENT
51% of single women are reported to buy their own jewelry, aligning with the trend of self-celebration. The rise of single women’s female purchasing power, especially among the 35-55 H.E.N.R.Y. ( high earning not rich yet) spinster has established herself as the most prominent demographic in the jewelry market.
THE TRADITION OF HAVING CHILDREN FOR LONGTERM HEALTHCARE
With so many medical and cultural advancements why is having children the societal standard and acceptable substitute for longterm healthcare? When asked the question, “why do you want to have children?” more than 50% of people answered, “ So I’ll have someone to take care of me when I get old!”
THE POWER LIP
Red lips are universally appealing, possibly due to a perceived association with sexual arousal. Highly attractive women were perceived as even more attractive in red. But WGAF? Women wear read because they love it and history tells us such. Red lips are the SP1NSTER’s signature lip color!
WOMEN ARE IN DANGER OF PREDATORS - EVEN IN DEATH
I recently came across a shocking twitter thread about the rise of the female mortician and why she matters.
I’ll start off by saying this it’s exactly why you think … 92% of necrophiliacs are men while 94% of necrophilia victims are women. Apparently, there has not been a sufficient number of necrophiliacs to establish any effective treatments although necrophilia has been documented since before the 13th century.
Plant Parenthood: choosing plants over babies or pets
A new trend has taken root and flourished in the homes of single, childless, and petless spinsters — plant parenthood is the newest and long lasting home decor and self care trend. If you've found yourself acquiring more houseplants over the past year, you're not alone. A recent study reveals that more than 70% of single women have embraced plant parenthood.
FRIENDS AND WOES
Friendships are not immune to challenges and conflicts. Disagreements or misunderstandings can lead to emotional turbulence. Friendship loss, much like any form of grief, can be a complex and challenging experience let The SP1NSTER™ guide you through your BFF-break-up.
WEAPONIZED INCOMPETENCE: A GROWING TREND AMONGT LAZY MEN
The hashtag for “weaponized incompetence” currently has 53.5 millions views on TikTok. Conversations on the app have spurred more in-depth threads on the socials spread like wildfire. It begs the question, “why does any woman want a man in their home who makes their life harder?”
OPINION: SINGLE WOMEN DON’T FEEL SAFE AROUND LAW ENFORCEMENT
Between 2005 and 2015, there were 517 cases of forcible rape by police in the US. Sexual misconduct is the second most common complaint against officers, reported once every five days in the US.
HIGH COST OF HEALTHCARE FOR SINGLE WOMEN
Single women spend nearly twice as much of their income on insurance as single men. From healthcare to auto insurance women are financially penalized for being responsible and living longer.
POSSESSION IS 9/10 OF THE LAW: ARE WOMEN ONLY ALLOWED AUTONOMY WHEN SHE IS SOMEONE’S WIFE OR DAUGHTER?
Among men, just 22% consider themselves to be a feminist. The idea that a woman's worth is determined solely by her roles as a mother, wife, daughter or sister is pervasive in our current culture. When male allies appeal to their brethren through the lens that, “she could be your ….” or “ she is my…” permits his relationship to supersede her autonomy.
THE MODERN WIDOW
Widowhood is a club no one wants to join. One-third of women become widows before they're 60, and half before they are 65. there were over 13 million widows in the United States. The modern widow’s life looks much different than it did decades ago, “for many, widowhood is not a problem to solve but a life to be lived.”
