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the attack on SINGLE women’s economic security
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the attack on SINGLE women’s economic security

A new economic revolution is underway — and it’s led by single women. As single women rise in wealth, education, and ownership, they’re rewriting the rules of power in America. Yet, amid layoffs, political backlash, and patriarchal resistance, their ascent threatens the old order — and exposes the systems built to suppress them.

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DIANE KEATON
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DIANE KEATON

There are so many films: Baby Boom, Looking for Mr. Goodbar, The First Wives Club, Annie Hall, Something’s Got to Give. In these movies, her character is single. She’s not married. She’s interesting, flirty, alive. And in every story, she challenges romance — and the narrative around it. In her life, she challenged it too.

“She’s played every version of single womanhood — and she represents us all.” For me, Diane Keaton has always been the single girl’s actress.

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ODB
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ODB

Older men usually date younger women because younger women usually have fewer boundaries and expectations. Younger women are easier to control often men cannot handle the confidence or assuredness of a woman his own age. 60% of men are attracted to younger women. 27% like women who are 5 to 9 years younger than them, and 22% like women who are more than 10 years younger than them. That means 13% of all men dating online are looking for women who are more than 10 years younger than they are.

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The Sp1nster’s Rejection of a Broken System
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The Sp1nster’s Rejection of a Broken System

For centuries, marriage defined a woman’s worth. Today, women are rejecting the outdated institution that once trapped them in unequal roles of servitude and silence. With more autonomy, education, and independence than ever, women are redefining fulfillment on their own terms—and marriage is no longer required.

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Entitlement Rebranded as Oppression
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Entitlement Rebranded as Oppression

Forget the myth that women are weaponizing sex. The truth is, men’s entitlement, emotional unavailability, and the growing dangers women face are turning them off from dating entirely. More women are choosing singlehood, prioritizing safety, autonomy, and self-respect over traditional romantic expectations.

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Should Women Stay Single?
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Should Women Stay Single?

Should women stay single? Research suggests yes. Single women live longer, report greater happiness, and enjoy more autonomy than married women, who still juggle wage gaps, housework, and the emotional labor of men unprepared for partnership. A Yale study and global data confirm the trend: women are delaying or rejecting marriage in favor of independence, education, and financial stability. With half of marriages ending in divorce and women filing most often, the benefits of singlehood are clear. What was once stigma is now empowerment—and for many, staying single is not just freedom but the smarter, healthier choice.

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THE SEX RECESSION
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THE SEX RECESSION

America’s so-called “sex recession” isn’t a mystery—it’s a movement. Women are increasingly choosing abstinence, not because they’ve lost desire, but because this country has stripped away reproductive rights, affordable healthcare, and economic stability. What looks like a decline in intimacy is actually women saying no to exploitation, risk, and men who refuse to rise to the occasion.

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NURSE OR PURSE
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NURSE OR PURSE

As women outpace men in education, homeownership, and financial stability, a new dating reality emerges: some men aren’t settling down for love, but for survival. From the fading “fuck boy” to the man seeking a caregiver, many are in search of a nurse or a purse. Here’s why women should protect their wallets, their labor, and their hearts.

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State of s1ngle women
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State of s1ngle women

Nearly 50% of U.S. women are single, choosing independence over tradition. This cultural shift is redefining happiness, fulfillment, and gender expectations.

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gone girl
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gone girl

As summer ends, reflections on solo travel emerge. Discover how solo travel for women over 40 is empowering, reshaping the tourism sector, and reflecting a broader desire for independence and self-empowerment in today's travel landscape.

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PTO
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PTO

See you in September 💋✌🏾🕶️

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SWIPE ME DOWN
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SWIPE ME DOWN

Why Women Are Opting Out of Dating Apps: The Hidden Financial and Emotional Costs You Need to Know

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SINGLE = SAFETY
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SINGLE = SAFETY

When “Home, Sweet Home” Turns Deadly: The Case for Singlehood as Self-Defense

Culture still scolds women who choose to remain single, warning of loneliness and ticking clocks. Yet the stark reality is that an American woman is more likely to be assaulted—or even killed—by the man she lives with than by any stranger. This piece unpacks the grim statistics of domestic violence, dismantles the myth that partnership equals security, and argues that for many women, independence isn’t a phase; it’s a survival strategy.

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INDEPENDENCE DAY
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INDEPENDENCE DAY

This Fourth of July, the nation’s capital will echo with more than cannon blasts: Beyoncé—the patron saint of “Single Ladies” everywhere—takes the stage in Washington, D.C., turning America’s birthday into a full-throated celebration of women who sign their own emancipation proclamations. Consider it a declaration of independence from couple-culture, with a bass line.

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SHE’S SINGLE, SHE CAN DO IT
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SHE’S SINGLE, SHE CAN DO IT

“Reclaiming my time!” : Why is it that single women’s time is seen as “free time” by so many? Whether it’s at work, where you’re the go-to for extra tasks just because you don’t have kids, or within your family, where you're expected to be the caregiver while others juggle their own commitments, the entitlement needs to stop. Your time, energy, and labor are valuable. It’s time to reclaim them.

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BYE, BYE BABY!
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BYE, BYE BABY!

Abortion bans and contraceptive rollbacks are often framed as moral victories, yet their real-world fallout lands squarely on single women who must shoulder every physical, financial, and professional consequence of an unplanned pregnancy. From six-figure child-rearing costs to derailed college degrees and stalled careers, denying reproductive choice exacts a price that men are rarely asked to pay. This op-ed makes the economic case for restoring unfettered access to birth control and abortion—because equality isn’t possible when only one half of the population can be legally conscripted into parenthood.

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ring doesn’t mean a thing
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ring doesn’t mean a thing

It’s official—women are rewriting the script on breakups and engagement rings. With 20% of engagements being called off before the wedding, many women are choosing to sell their rings as a powerful way to reclaim their financial independence and invest in their future. Instead of letting a broken engagement define them, they’re using the proceeds to buy a house, start a business, or travel the world. This new trend is not about erasing the past—it’s about turning a painful moment into an empowering opportunity for self-investment. Say goodbye to the fairytale and hello to the empowered single woman’s happily ever after!

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drop your pin : WYA
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drop your pin : WYA

Single women are everywhere, from the big cities to the smallest towns, and they’re living their best lives. Whether it’s NYC’s hustle and bustle, LA’s creative vibe, or even unexpected places like Utah, women are connecting, thriving, and embracing independence. To find your tribe, explore local events, join hobbies, or use dating apps to meet women who share your passions. The perfect connection could be just around the corner—so get out there and embrace the fun!

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