The Patriarchy Is Homoerotic — And That’s Not a Joke, It’s a Blueprint. Straight men may sleep with women, but the people they love, admire, and perform for are other men. What happens when women stop orbiting that system and start thriving outside of it?

The SP1NSTER™’s Guide to Eating Well When the Government Isn’t. As food prices rise and SNAP benefits hang in the balance, single women are rethinking dinner. Here’s how to shop smart, eat beautifully, and stay independent — even on a budget.

Single, Strong, and Showing Up: How Unmarried Women Are Reshaping American Politics

From the voting booth to the picket line, single women are driving civic engagement and pushing for progress. Their influence isn’t just growing — it’s redefining the political landscape for everyone.

Spooky season is here — and we’re not just talking haunted houses, we’re talking haunted hearts. As cuffing season creeps in, the ghouls, goblins, and hobo-sexuals emerge from the shadows. Grab your sage and your standards — it’s getting dark out there, baby. 👻

A new economic revolution is underway — and it’s led by single women. As single women rise in wealth, education, and ownership, they’re rewriting the rules of power in America. Yet, amid layoffs, political backlash, and patriarchal resistance, their ascent threatens the old order — and exposes the systems built to suppress them.

There are so many films: Baby Boom, Looking for Mr. Goodbar, The First Wives Club, Annie Hall, Something’s Got to Give. In these movies, her character is single. She’s not married. She’s interesting, flirty, alive. And in every story, she challenges romance — and the narrative around it. In her life, she challenged it too.

“She’s played every version of single womanhood — and she represents us all.” For me, Diane Keaton has always been the single girl’s actress.

Older men usually date younger women because younger women usually have fewer boundaries and expectations. Younger women are easier to control often men cannot handle the confidence or assuredness of a woman his own age. 60% of men are attracted to younger women. 27% like women who are 5 to 9 years younger than them, and 22% like women who are more than 10 years younger than them. That means 13% of all men dating online are looking for women who are more than 10 years younger than they are.

For centuries, marriage defined a woman’s worth. Today, women are rejecting the outdated institution that once trapped them in unequal roles of servitude and silence. With more autonomy, education, and independence than ever, women are redefining fulfillment on their own terms—and marriage is no longer required.

Forget the myth that women are weaponizing sex. The truth is, men’s entitlement, emotional unavailability, and the growing dangers women face are turning them off from dating entirely. More women are choosing singlehood, prioritizing safety, autonomy, and self-respect over traditional romantic expectations.

Should women stay single? Research suggests yes. Single women live longer, report greater happiness, and enjoy more autonomy than married women, who still juggle wage gaps, housework, and the emotional labor of men unprepared for partnership. A Yale study and global data confirm the trend: women are delaying or rejecting marriage in favor of independence, education, and financial stability. With half of marriages ending in divorce and women filing most often, the benefits of singlehood are clear. What was once stigma is now empowerment—and for many, staying single is not just freedom but the smarter, healthier choice.

America’s so-called “sex recession” isn’t a mystery—it’s a movement. Women are increasingly choosing abstinence, not because they’ve lost desire, but because this country has stripped away reproductive rights, affordable healthcare, and economic stability. What looks like a decline in intimacy is actually women saying no to exploitation, risk, and men who refuse to rise to the occasion.

As women outpace men in education, homeownership, and financial stability, a new dating reality emerges: some men aren’t settling down for love, but for survival. From the fading “fuck boy” to the man seeking a caregiver, many are in search of a nurse or a purse. Here’s why women should protect their wallets, their labor, and their hearts.

The manosphere exploits male loneliness and resentment, fueling fragile masculinity. This cultural crisis endangers men’s health while deepening misogyny and societal harm.

Nearly 50% of U.S. women are single, choosing independence over tradition. This cultural shift is redefining happiness, fulfillment, and gender expectations.

As summer ends, reflections on solo travel emerge. Discover how solo travel for women over 40 is empowering, reshaping the tourism sector, and reflecting a broader desire for independence and self-empowerment in today's travel landscape.

See you in September 💋✌🏾🕶️

Why Women Are Opting Out of Dating Apps: The Hidden Financial and Emotional Costs You Need to Know

When “Home, Sweet Home” Turns Deadly: The Case for Singlehood as Self-Defense

Culture still scolds women who choose to remain single, warning of loneliness and ticking clocks. Yet the stark reality is that an American woman is more likely to be assaulted—or even killed—by the man she lives with than by any stranger. This piece unpacks the grim statistics of domestic violence, dismantles the myth that partnership equals security, and argues that for many women, independence isn’t a phase; it’s a survival strategy.

This Fourth of July, the nation’s capital will echo with more than cannon blasts: Beyoncé—the patron saint of “Single Ladies” everywhere—takes the stage in Washington, D.C., turning America’s birthday into a full-throated celebration of women who sign their own emancipation proclamations. Consider it a declaration of independence from couple-culture, with a bass line.

“Reclaiming my time!” : Why is it that single women’s time is seen as “free time” by so many? Whether it’s at work, where you’re the go-to for extra tasks just because you don’t have kids, or within your family, where you're expected to be the caregiver while others juggle their own commitments, the entitlement needs to stop. Your time, energy, and labor are valuable. It’s time to reclaim them.